The Safe Library - Service, Safety, & Security with Dr. Steve Albrecht

Here’s a fun exercise, one that will help you connect to a wider variety of your patrons: 

Step 1 - Create a list of the Top Three most common languages spoken in and around your library, by the patrons you serve. (Just one language is too easy; four is too hard.)

Step 2 - Do your usual “skilled library professional research” and develop a list of the most common phrases in those languages. Memorize them and have them at the ready (or on a cheat sheet) when you encounter patrons who speak those languages besides English. 

Thanks to a total of six years of classes through high school, college, and graduate school, I speak Spanish fluently. (Living most of my life in San Diego helped me practice every day.) In terms of skill level from best to needs-improvement, for me, it’s reading, speaking, writing, and hearing it. That last issue is my biggest challenge, since native speakers talk quickly, especially when they hear me speak Spanish and think I understand them fully. I have to say, “Por favor, mas despacio,” more times than I’d like.

Thanks to being an Albrecht (a name in Germany as common as Smith is here), I can speak enough German to get by there. It came in plenty handy on our river cruise through Holland, Germany, France, and Switzerland this past May. “Entschuldigen, wo sind die Brezeln?” or “Excuse me, where are the pretzels?” 

With my mother’s side being from Finland, I can say, “Good day,” “How is it going?,” and “What’s happening?” plus a few dozen swear words. Finnish, to quote a part of a line from Philip Seymour Hoffman’s office rant scene in “Charlie Wilson’s War,” is not that handy here in Missouri. 

My dad speaks German, Spanish, Japanese (including being able to write a few dozen kanji symbols), and even a little Mandarin Chinese. He’s a good enough speaker/listener to travel to those countries regularly and stay comfortably hoteled, fed, and explained to, by native speakers. 

Many years ago, I had a challenging coaching session with an employee from Thailand who was in jeopardy of being fired, due to his conflict with another employee. I memorized how to say, “How are you? My name is Steve” in Thai. (Phonetically, it’s “Sa-Wat-Dee-Khrap, Pom-Chue-Steve.”) When he heard me, he smiled, bowed, and thanked me for my effort to connect with him in his language, however briefly. We worked it out, he kept his job, and I picked up a few new phrases from him as well.

The old adage that people from other countries actually like it when you try to speak a few phrases of their language is universally true. It just helps to demonstrate your respect for their heritage, it can lower the emotional temperature in a potentially conflicted situation, and it shows you care enough to have done the research and memorized the words. 

The most common languages spoken in many US neighborhoods are Spanish, Chinese, German, Arabic, Hindi, Tagalog, and French. Of course, where you are geographically is the biggest indicator. Some of these languages are quite challenging, so start memorizing these phrases in the three languages you pick:

Hello/Goodbye
How is your day going?
I’m learning this language. 
How can I help you?
Can you teach me some common phrases?
How do I say, “Please speak slowly?”
Thanks/Thank you/You’re welcome.

Our connection with people is built on mutual communication that is respectful and that shows listening skills on both sides. A little patience, a little practice, and a little courage to try what you are learning can really set the most positive tone with the patrons you serve.

Hyvää lomaa! (Happy holidays in Finnish.)